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12) You don’t question it

Sure, part of you wants to check whether they feel it too, or how you know if there really is a spark between you – but another part of you already kind of knows the answer.

When you experience an instant connection it’s usually so obvious and perhaps even all-consuming that it doesn’t leave much time to feel insecure.

Sometimes when we meet people we worry so much about what they think of us or the type of impression we are making on them.

But every now and then when you get caught up in an instant connection, you don’t have time to stress about these kinds of things in the same way.

Even if your overthinking mind questions it, deep down in your core you know that you feel what you feel and that they probably feel it too. Both of your behaviour towards one another makes it fairly clear.

So even though as the relationship progresses it’s natural for some insecurities and doubts to pop up, after that first meeting you’re not sitting around wondering if they really liked you too, because you already know it.

13) They feel familiar

There are some people who you meet where it feels like you have known them for ages – even though your paths have only just crossed.

The truth is that we are all very good at reading people, even if you don’t think of this as being especially true – for example, maybe you’ve had some disastrous relationships in the past that have left you seriously questioning your judgement.

But your subconscious mind is an expert at quickly taking onboard and processing lots of information to feed to your conscious mind – which then makes a judgement about a person.

We may not find people very often who feel at home, but when we do we naturally and quickly gravitate towards them.

Behind the scenes, your subconscious mind is noticing all the complexities that make you like someone, and so you instinctively know that they are one of your kind.

It could be that you are picking up on shared values, shared backgrounds and experiences or even similar family dynamics.

I mentioned them earlier. They have helped me out in the past and I’ve always found them honest and compassionate in their readings.

So instead of trying to deal with uncertainties or overwhelming emotions on your own, speak to an advisor who’ll give you the guidance that you need.

14) You’re honest

Isn’t it the biggest breath of fresh air when you don’t feel the need to play games, pretend to be something you’re not and can be honest with someone?

The funny thing is, even though it’s what all of us desire the most from our relationships, we also often spend a lot of time hiding from it.

With true honesty, there can be the ever-present fear in the back of your head that you may be rejected.

That’s why feeling like you can be truthful, sincere and genuine with somebody is a great reflection Sjekk bloggen min of the bond between you.

Particularly if it’s a romantic or sexual instant connection you feel, all that chemistry is bound to show through your body language.

Because not all of us are great at flirting (especially if we’re feeling intimidated) it can also manifest in more uncomfortable body language – like appearing shy, blushing, or finding it difficult to hold a gaze.

Look for signs of ‘out of the ordinary’ body language (at either end of the spectrum) that indicate you to are totally feeling all the feels for one another.